性教育是教育学中非常重要的一部分，它在我们的日常生活中也充当十分重要的作用，它能告诉我们如何保护自己不被侵害，东方人以含蓄为主，对待性教育的态度比较模糊，性教育的体系有待完善，学校的生理卫生课流于表面薯童谣 ，家庭对他趋之若鹜，西方的思想比较开放，性教育的体系比较完整，学校的和家庭的性教育相辅相成，我们需要政府制定政策让每个学校都会有性教育的相关课程，让家长在家中告诉孩子有关于性行为，性道德的知识易搭网 ，让他们学会正确的学会性生活。普及性教育才是每个教育者的任务，只是为了解放人们的性欲和天性，因为那是人的本性。
关键词：性教育（sex education）家庭（family） 学校（school）
Thedifference of the sex education
betweenwestern and eastern world
InMarch, a book about sex education written by the children’s sex education groupof Beijing Normal University causes discussion. Some people think it is bad forchildren. First恐龙特工队 , what matters most is that the picture of genitals is sobarefaced. In addition, so clear about sexual behavior does the book write thatchildren will get worse and worse. Last晋嫣 , they think some thoughts in this bookcan have a bad effect on these children. Contrast with conservative attitudetowards sex education, the school in USA is open. As we all know综漫盖亚 , the collegewill give the freshmen a book named “you are so sexy when you aren’ttransmitting STI’s “and a condom. What’s more, they will discuss with otherstudents. They say :“At the age of three ,they are told that everyone can’ttouch their genitals. At the age of twelve, they know how they were born. ”
To my sorrow, a girl committed suicide in hishouse at the age of twenty-four. The reason why she took her own life isbecause she suffered sexual abuse at the age of thirteen. But I think the mostimportant that caused this miserable consequence is that when she wanted totell this thing to her mother, her mother didn’t believe this and cursed her.When I read his novel about her real life, the two plots make a deep impressionon my mind. The first one is when the daughter told to his mother that one girlis rapped, she mother said she is such a minx that she is rapped. The second iswhen they have lunch, the girl say In this house, every education is ok, but weare lack of sex education. the mother said What is the sex education? The sexeducation is needed in the family where they need sex. The girl knows themother is not late for the sex education, but is absent from it. But if thiscircumstance appears in the western world,zippo打火机 the parents should care about therechildren ,go to the police office and ask help to psychologists.
With the two examples mentioned above, we canknow that the western world has a perfect sex education system, but China don’thave. We should use the experience of the western world for reference in orderto make the children know how to know the sex correctly and protect themselves.
II The school sexeducation in the western world and eastern world
First of all, as a proverb says” The educator’smission is to popularize the sex education in order to liberate our humanity.So the western world understands the importance of sex education and hasabundant system. I want to give an example like USA. On the basis of a lawcalled National Sexuality Education Standards, it divides it into four parts.The enlightment of the sex, which is from kindergarten to the second grade,makes them know the truth that everyone can’t touch the private parts and goodtouches & bad touches. They will be told that if someone encounters the badtouches they should say no王冕僧寺夜读 , go to a safe place and tell an adult the truth.From the third year to the fifth year北川美幸 , they will know what happen in thepuberty and make preparations for it. From the primary school to the juniorhigh school, the puberty has a profound effect on the children’s minds. Theyhave some different reactions. Some children choose to have early sexualbehaviors请假王 , but others don’t have theawareness of the sex. So the school will choose to teach them how to deal withthese problems very well. According to this law, up to this stage, studentsshould know pregnancy, contraception, sexual behavior and sexually disease andknow how to deal with pregnancy correctly. In the senior high school, they willteach the students how to use condom and treat LGBT as normal people. I thinkit is the prefect sex education system that let the possibility of rape reduce.As a survey carried by a famous website, because they have the awareness ofprotecting themselves at their early age, the rate of having been rapped hasreduced.
Contrastwith the western world, the eastern world takes an evasive attitude towards thesex education. In the school, the school will have two classes to teach the sexeducation, one is PhysiologicalHygiene Course, and the other is biology course. But so superficially is itthat the major class like Chinese Math and English will take the place of them.The class is limited in the simple knowledge about the sex and it doesn’tinclude sexual behavior, sexual rights and the correct thinking of the sex. Butthe puberty appears. They are curious about the sex but the school doesn’tteach, which result in the bad result that they will get this knowledge fromthe unhealthy website and videos. A survey shows more than half of the childrenwill browse the pornographic website and watch blue films in order to know thesex. I can’t image what a bad effect on the children’s physical and mentalhealth. So it is high time that the government should take some effectivemeasures to let students know the sex knowledge in a correct way.
Through contrasting with the school sex education极品全才 , we can know thewestern world has a prefect system，but China is lackof the system. So I hope the government should make a law to make sure thatevery school have the sex classes.
III The family sexeducation in the western world and eastern world
What’smore, the reason why its sex education is successful is that it also asks theparents to teach them about the sex. As we all know, the children are curiousabout how they come to this world. The western mother will use the picturealbumto tell them when facing this question. Meanwhile, they will teach themdirectly when the girls see feminine hygiene products around the house and they will letthe boys know wet dreams. The parents will tell the children how to protectthemselves not only from pregnancy but also from getting diseases. The mostawkward moment is that when the children see their parent making love. Theparents think it would be really frighteningto the kids and they are afraid of children imitating them. So they will telltheir children this action behave the truth that they like each other so deeplyand the principle that only if you and the girl love each other can you takethis action. When talking to the condoms军号铃声 , the parents will say it is the mostsuccessful invention all over the world and it can make you safe. They alsogive their children condoms and teach them how to use. In my opinion, thewestern world combines the school sex education with the family sex educationappropriately留学桥 , which make them have the correct awareness.
Zhengyuanjie tell the newspaper that atthe age of fifteen, he wanted to take a bath with the girl he loved because hethink he was born when their parents take a bath. His father didn’t explain tohim but asked him to stand all the day. I think it is the most notable exampleto explain the family education is lack of the sex education. In my view, the harmfulnessof lacking sex education can reflect the three parts written as follows.
To start with, what matters most is thatthe children have more possibility to be rapped. If your parents don’t tell youabout this knowledge, you will lack the awareness of protecting yourselves and thesense of shame. In a case呈会 , it is this reason that makes the child regretted.Because he like dogs, the man tell the child only if you take off his clothescan you play with the dog, which makes the child rapped. So I think we shouldteach them to avoid this result. In addition, the reason why lacking sexeducation is harmful is that it will make children trapped in some unhealthymessages. For example, because their parents don’t tell their about the sex,some children choose to see AVs and think sex is only a pleasure. They ignorethe love, the family and morality. The correct thinking is that the sex appearsbecause of the love. Last but not least, the disadvantage of lacking sexeducation is to let children have a sense of sexual repression and emotionaldisturbance. For a instance, a boy snipped his genital because he think it ismasturbation that make his grades decline. We can image that if his parentstell him about this, he can’t do this and will choose another way to solve it.
Wemust be familiar with a scene that when we asked our parents how we come to theworld they tell us you must know until you grow up. When we want to make lovewith the girl, our parents will forbid us to make love because we can’t takethis responsibility. When they find some condoms in my bags, they will ask uswhy it appears in your bag. When we watch a film including kiss, they willclose it. These behaviors can embody the current situation of the sex that thesex is a taboo and can’t take a positive attitude towards it. I think it is notright. We should face up to the sex. In order to make us not make love, theywill hold back from making love, which do harm to their marriage.
Bycontrasting with the family sex education, we can know the China’s problem.Based on these problems, I want to take some advice. Firstly, the parentsshould teach their children as early as possible. People will be interested inthe sex at the age of three. It is the right time to teach them. Furthermore,we can put the books where they can see and reach out easily, which can avoid embarrassments.Additionally, we can pay attention to their growth situation and share some ourexperience to them. Not only can it develop the communication, but also it canteach them naturally. In particular, you should also tell them the sexualmorality and the sexual rights. Lastly,段曦 we must grasp the yardstick. We shouldteach the children the correct contents at the correct time.
Whatever big gap the school sex education and the familysex education are can let us know China’s sex education should make progress.We must take some effective measures to let the children have the correct thinkings.One way is that the government should make sure every school have the sexclasses醉侠苏乞儿 , the other way is parents should teach the children about the sexknowledge in advance.